Showing posts with label broken heart. Show all posts
Showing posts with label broken heart. Show all posts

Tuesday, June 11, 2013

Heart Damage Control


So .. He spent several years with you then made up a series of excuses to break up only to marry
another chick several month later ??
Ok, it happens … you are not the first and sure won’t be the last .. you didn’t see all of this coming, made all the wrong decisions, made up all possible excuses, and still he broke up with you. Is it the end of the world?? you might feel so now, but it’s not ..  Now you are probably feeling regret .. well that won’t help .. it will only be wasting more time crying over the years you lost .. is that true ?? .. were those years really lost ?? Stop thinking like this & let’s do some damage control ..
images (4)Do you remember how many days you fell asleep smiling and woke up with a bright face because of this relation .. Remember how everything you did in those years was exactly what you wanted at that time .. You had your share of smiles of smiles, laughs, and experienced so many exciting events, that you couldn’t fall asleep thinking about how great it is .. SO DON’T REGRET !
You might feel trapped & strangled cause every where you go seems to remind you of how it was when you were together .. consider those nice memories & be grateful to have had them .. try to break loose .. this is the time .. get your best girlfriends and go on a cleansing trip together, some where you’ve never been before .. you’ll be amazed there’s so much out
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 there in the world you haven’t seen or discovered, and the globe is not limited to the places you’ve been with him .. the trip could make you even realize that being single again is not that bad at all .. leave everything else behind you and welcome your new life ! Who knows you might meet someone new ..
When you’re back .. Go pamper yourself for a full day in a spa while your best friends get rid of everything related to him & redecorate your room .. this will spare you a lot of heartache ..
Lastly, when the morbid day comes and you get the news he’s getting married, just remember he was not flawless .. recollect in your mind everything that used to drive you insane about him and pity the woman who has to live with it for the rest of her life .. ;)
Remember you still have a sea full of fish to choose from, this time the “experienced more mature you” is choosing ..