Ladies, I have come to this conclusion .. according to the analysis of my previous relationships and my readings .. let me give you some advice … We can throw all our stupid self-help, why- doesn't - he - love - me books out, because this is all we need to know: Men will treat us the way we let them ..
There is no such thing as “deserving” respect; you get what you demand from people .. if you demand respect, he will either respect you or he won’t associate with you … It really is that simple …
Honest communication is top priority for men .. They want a woman who answers questions honestly, and perhaps even volunteers information .. They want a woman who confidently asks for her wants and needs to be met .. They want a woman who can see the truth and tell it like it is while communicating with kindness .. Men want a woman who can communicate without being too critical, who cares about preserving his and her dignity ..
Men want a woman to choose them out of want rather than out of desperation — either materially or emotionally .. Men need to be wanted and needed by their partners, but they want their partners to have a separate identity .. Ladies, please note that they don’t want someone clingy .. If you are one person who has her own set of friends and can hang out by yourself, you are closer to hitting the jackpot ..
Men want no manipulation of any kind .. They do not want to read their partner’s mind or try to interpret signals .. They do not want to be forced to move faster in a relationship than they are ready .. They do not want to be manipulated into taking all the blame for things gone wrong .. They do not want to be on the receiving end of game playing ..
Men want a partner who can laugh at herself and who has courage and strength .. They want a woman who can see her part in relationship dynamics and own it .. She has to be emotionally stable .. Men want a woman who is developing herself personally, and who takes responsibility for her emotional experience ..
Fidelity is an absolute must .. In fact, men want a woman who does not have a “roaming eye” and who can wholeheartedly commit to the relationship .. Many may define commitment as fidelity plus the willingness to work on the relationship — even when the going gets tough ..
Most men want acknowledgment and appreciation from women .. The most powerfully romantic card a woman could give a man on Valentine’s Day would not be one that tells him how much she loves him and adores him .. No, the kind of card that he would keep and show his buddies (who would react with stunned awe and envy) would be a card in which she tells him how deeply she respects and admires him, how much she appreciates all he does for her and their family ..
So ladies, how about you write a card to your man, telling him genuinely how much you respect him, and see how he reacts? Let me know in the comments below! And Guys, let me know if I’m right .. 
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